May 2013
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[[MORE]]v difficult to concentrate on work when you’re completely preoccupied by the question of whether you want to take care of needing to get filled the fuck up by slapping someone around and then collaring and leashing them, or by getting held down and forced to take it.
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“Every mouth you’ve ever kissed was just practice. All the bodies you’ve ever...”
– Warsan Shire (via warsanshire)
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pretty much just laughed for five hours straight. so worth tomorrow’s sleep deprivation, hours of being cold, and the trek to mile end in flip flops and a slutty mantop.
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last night i realized that with this hair i actually NEVER look like a radqueer and this delights me.
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stoner femme loose ponytail bed party summer beach...
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“it’s sort of like joke-topping a bunch of assholes.”
– sub-rosa on trolling performance artists
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sub-rosa: this color combination is hideous...
me: doesn't that delight you!?
sub-rosa: NO this is hideous in a bad way. i need to make it hideous in a good way.
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[[MORE]]don draper i don’t give a flying fuck about your suicide-guilt feels.
also i’m really glad i didn’t watch this episode while blazed.
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princessotto:
smashtheplates:
anyone has articles/essays about trans* masculin priviledge stuff?
I’m trying to figure out the duality between oppressed as trans* but privileged as masculine.
signal boostin this! also, if we can’t name any zines about this, we should probably write something about this. i got all the feels bout havin dude privilege and what that means to me.
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“The question why I would LET Willow cut her hair. First the LET must be...”
– Jada Pinkett Smith (via chubby-bunnies)
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for reals the only good thing about today is that sub-rosa is on a bus on her way here.
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Femme is a queer specific term.
grrlyman:
Telling straight people they can ID as femme if they’re feminist is the same as telling them they can ID as queer if they’re kinky. Femme originated among trans women of color and lesbians.
It’s also pretty telling that anytime you ask a queer who thinks it’s fine for straight people to ID as femme if straight men can ID as bears and twinks they get all indignant. I think it’s related...
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badfuckingpuns:
plasmodiocarp:
fuckdudeskilldudes replied to your post: spill more on mcgill
lol remember a while ago when people were naming mcgill profs who slept with their students on craigslist missed connections
possibly my favourite of so many cherished st henri kitchen laptop party memories
WAIT SOMEHOW I MISSED THIS WHEN IT HAPPENED but I’m so glad it did
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writeswrongs:
You can like an artist/poet/musician/writer even if their problematic, but can you not do every fucking twist and turn to pretend they’re not?
We all like super problematic famous people, myself included, but there’s no need to hand-wave away their flaws.
Can you just not jump in to be an obnoxious piece of shit at every damn chance?
I like a Beatles song or two! Don’t mean I...
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[[MORE]]realized last night that the reason it’s taking me monthssss to read this is how you lose her is that i’m finding it really triggering. i love junot díaz; his writing is so good, in all these unexpected and sweet and honest and accurate little ways. but it takes a lot out of me to read about men who love women but treat them like shit anyways, men who treat women like they’re disposable,...
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amaresempra:
Everyone please repeat after me: You can be genderfluid and not appear androgynous
You do not have to wear your gender/genderfluidity/agender in a socially acceptable manner only.
You do not have to meet other peoples standard of what your gender looks/acts/sounds like.
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kingofdumblr:
cuntext:
and then i threw up at the misogyny of the jaguar pitch but hey that’s just par for the course, here.
It’s set in the 60s what the fuck do you expect?
um, i expect exactly that. that’s what “par for the course” means.
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aaahhhhhhh it’s over it was fine i am so relieved. have entered that state of sleep-deprived exhaustion where all i wanna do is get spooned. and then let it turn into sex.
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and then i threw up at the misogyny of the jaguar pitch but hey that’s just par for the course, here.
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“there’s no negotiation”
– joan, demanding a partnership in the company as payment for sex work
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hahahahahhahaaaa so of all the things i was nervous about regarding this training i’ve been coordinating for the past six weeks for the team at work, i didn’t even consider this plot twist!
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welp. two eggs is too many eggs for me.
on the bright side, i now understand my california besties’ favorite order from our favorite café. feta, basil, onion, and sweet pepper, yes yes yes.
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here i am at age 25 about to embark on the adventure of scrambling eggs all by myself for the first time
wish me luck.
On cultural appropriation and the fetishization...
forteriot:
I’m sure that many of you have recently come across this photoshopped image of Willow Smith wearing this shirt:
Watching this circulate on tumblr and FB was/is painful and enraging for reasons that I will get into shortly. But before I do, I want to clarify that my point here isn’t to slander the person who made this shirt, but to hold them accountable to the ways in which they, a...
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red: that's what's known on the internet as a squee, right?
me: no, a squee is a happy noise!
red: oh well. i tried.
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tw: sexual harassment
today i biked all over the city in a long skirt knotted up and four-inch spike heels and it was the hardest femme thing ever. today i got to be reminded that now that it’s spring, the dogs are out. and by dogs, i mean dudes. dudes in cars and dudes with their packs of friends and dudes on sidewalk corners, dudes dudes dudes.
sometimes i forget for a little while that...
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sore from dancing, have to bike up to the plateau for my tattoo consult. someone give me a foot massage. derby and more dancing tonight!
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guys i’ve never seen eartha kitt be catwoman. and i still haven’t seen anne hathaway be catwoman, really. catwoman marathon?
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“As I get older, as time goes by, I care less and less and less about whether...”
– (via howtohaveabody)
yes.
(via vividandpeculiar)
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so I heard you guys liked Chinese American Witches
angryasiangirlsunited:
angrygirlcomics:
I got an email last week from a good friend of mine about a book launch party where the author would be reading excerpts from her new e-book on… Chinese American witches
and I was like
what
oh my god
this is so exciting
WHO IS THIS GIRL SHE IS MY MIND TWIN WE MUST MEET AND I WANT TO BE HER FRIEND!
so I went to the reading and met Gwen Li, the...
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“Some of these music blogs could actually benefit from hiring people who REALLY...”
– Solange Knowles
Please school these children Solange. (This was taken from tweets that she shared this morning.) I cannot think of anything more irritating and reprehensible than having cultural writers write about something they know little of, and having some abstractly-related degrees as “proof”...
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