March 2012
Yes, We Are Polyamorous: 1st Polyamorous Union... →
adorablepolycouples:
On January 13th of 2012, the triad Anita Barbosa, Naldo Costa and Suh Lee (picture), brazilians, gave a step forward to get their poly relationship legally recognized.
“For the first time in history we got a document with a state seal/stamp (which means it’s suitable for legal purposes)…
yay! but also, the name “adorable poly couples” makes me lol?
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Watchcumberbatchandbowtie:
nothing-rhymes-with-ianto:
cheesecakemaster:
omnomnomsugar:
lackingintabasco:
bl4cktreacle:
br8kspider:
what-is-this-i-dont-even:
I did not expect any of the things that just happened.
^^^^pretty much that
wHAT did i just watch?
:|
PEEING MYSELF
I…have no words.
I just love this so much. It cracks me up so hard.
coughing from astonishment
not...
“Most gay men are as sexist in their thinking as are heterosexuals. Their...”
– ― bell hooks, The Will to Change: Men, Masculinity, and Love (via yosimar)
A thousand times yes. And they are even worse about being privilege deniers when you call them out for sexist shit.
(via satifice)
February 2012
itsinthetrees:
sabriels replied to your post: -
WAIT LUCY IS BISEXUAL OMG MY CHILDHOOD DREAAAAAAAMS
y e s
that is a big part of why she is such a huge gay icon
like she is fierce as hell which is the general prerequisite but she is also part of the family and has been pretty vocal about it
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so on my way home from work i was like: i would like to do something really self-care-y that is not cooking food.
now i am tweezing my eyebrows and talking to sub-rosa.
“This body, with all its capacities, seemed nothing — nothing at all. She had the...”
– Virginia Woolf, Mrs Dalloway. (via fuckyeahvirginiawoolf)
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whenever i listen to straight love/breakup songs
i’m torn between:
being relieved that i don’t ever date such fucking jerks who do such inanely hurtful things
wishing my dating life had such clear rules (queer, poly, makes things a little less clear-cut)
(in case you’re wondering, i’m listening to the writing’s on the wall. the entire album, because it’s underrated.)
ain't safe for work, nope.
beatonna:
Last night I was emailed some porn that someone drew of me because I said a thing on the internet that they disagreed with. Because, there you go, ‘justice.’ When stuff like that comes your way you don’t usually say anything because who gives a fuck, but oh well, let’s do it anyway. So, I’ve seen that shit before because I’ve been on the internet for 100 years, but it always looks...
“Women of today are still being called upon to stretch across the gap
of male...”
– Audre Lorde (via mooseknucklessss)
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“Frighten me? Yes you do frighten me. You act as though we will be together for...”
– Jeanette Winterson, Written on the Body (via theraconteurasaurus)
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Fast as you can, baby, scratch me out, free...
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listening to "motivation"...
before going out tonight, dressed in a 1940s girl scout dress, witch heels, and flagging navy blue right.
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“i’m always better at getting dressed when i’m high.”
– me. now.
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“Attention without feeling, I began to learn, is only a report. An openness...”
– Mary Oliver, quoted by the LA Times
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wait, wat?
wikipedia’d mary oliver for the eight millionth time, noticed this:
Diane S. Bond echoes that “few feminists have wholeheartedly appreciated Oliver’s work, and though some critics have read her poems as revolutionary reconstructions of the female subject, others remain skeptical that identification with nature can empower women.”[8]
I AM SORRY WHAT!? How the fuck can you be skeptical...
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“As for the body, it is solid and strong and curious
and full of detail; it...”
– “Evidence (Part 1),” Mary Oliver
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“Femme means a number of different things to different people. I can’t speak to...”
– mygenderiskittens (via pompadoursandpincurls)
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a letter to my crazy self
Dear H,
Your particular brand of insanity makes it really easy to rocket off earth into emotions so outlandish and unexpected and intense it feels like they are in space, black holes, supernovas, explosive. Your particular brand of insanity makes it really easy to spend hours, evenings, days, orbiting out there in space, more and more cyclical, more and more hopeless.
There is a reason you...
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FuckYeahPolyamory: Why I Just Got Tested and You... →
fuckyeahpolyamory:
Imagine the web of people you have vicariously slept with through your other partners.
Imagine how it keeps extending, becoming more complicated and convoluted.
Imagine the moments when any of these lovers, out of passion, forgot protection.
Imagine the moments when they had their…
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mental health day
after seeing my shrink today i realized there was no fucking way i was going to get anything done at work. so i took a mh day and grocery shopped and have been watching downton abbey and making:
marinade (now in fridge with tofu in it)
miso soup with bok choy, seaweed, leeks, red pepper flakes, and nutritional yeast (now in my belly)
black beans with garlic, cilantro, and red pepper flakes (now...
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“For the lesbian of color, the ultimate rebellion she can make against her native...”
– Gloria Anzaldua, Borderlands/La Frontera: The New Mestiza, 3rd Edition, p. 41 (via agradschoolbreakup)
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guy: do you ever masturbate
girl: that's like asking if i ever breathe
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this ain't livin': I Don't Mind If You're Crazy,... →
Outward symptoms of mental illness can be scary, I get it. But mental illness can also be really scary. When you’re in a place where it is expressing outwardly, that’s sometimes a really, really scary place to be. I have been a shouter on a street corner and it is not pleasant because there is a part of you that is screaming in terror and longing for someone to come help. But you can’t say ‘help...
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“I had no one to help me, but the T. S. Eliot helped me.
So when people say...”
– Jeanette Winterson, Why Be Happy When You Could Be Normal? (via afewofmyfavourites)
“Femme is defiance. Femme ignores the male gaze & tells patriarchy to fuck...”
– BOSSY FEMME (via clairebearstare)
Holy crap I hate sleeping alone :(
whencylonsdream:
anyone else get super unreasonably paranoid pretty much every night if they are sleeping by themselves?