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if you want to have a scene with me

and you text me asking if i’d like to, and i say i’d like to talk a bit more about what might be possible and would like to email back and forth a bit and ask if you’d be comfortable with that, and then you give me your email address and i email you, please do not then text me and ask if you can call me to discuss the scene. i wanted to email. that’s why i asked if you would be comfortable emailing.

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queerbetweenthelines:

Put down Fifty Shades of Grey for five minutes and go read some real pulp.
Gender-bending, leather, and even a touch of sweetness here and there…it’s a classic for a reason.

goddammit been meaning to read this for years. i think i keep holding off because it might make me really dead set on finding a fagdaddy to play with and that’s just probably not gonna happen.

queerbetweenthelines:

Put down Fifty Shades of Grey for five minutes and go read some real pulp.

Gender-bending, leather, and even a touch of sweetness here and there…it’s a classic for a reason.

goddammit been meaning to read this for years. i think i keep holding off because it might make me really dead set on finding a fagdaddy to play with and that’s just probably not gonna happen.

(via femmethings)

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AHHHHLRGHAOIHAWEOIHACV ONE OF MY FAVORITE DJS/FAVORITE BROS IS PLAYING A PLAY PARTY IN TORONTO

i have only been hoping for this for three years now.

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brimstone-and-ash:

verbalforeplay:

I tossed my pet a sock

She shouted “Master has given Dobby a sock. I’m free!” 

And ran off. 

And this…

This is my life. 

<3

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deserthooker:

Mmm organization. Hot.

want

deserthooker:

Mmm organization. Hot.

want

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courtneytrouble:

ftmfucker:

Beretta James, Dex Hardlove and Delvin Deluge part one is now up on FTMFUCKER.com!

“Kissing makes everything better” Dex Hardlove taunts after tattooed hottie Delvin Deluge and Dex throw an unsuspecting Beretta James into the back their truck and drag her into a dirty abandoned basement. Delvin and Dex strip her of her clothes, face fuck her with their hard cocks, and make her into their personal fuck toy. Things get interesting when Dex notices Delvin’s wet hungry hole, and gives his boy what he deserves, more fucking and orgasms!

This ftm on ftm on femme scene features Dex Hardlove’s first scene with a girl and Delvin Deluge’s first porn scene ever as well as Beretta James first scene with trans men!  It’s filthy, hardcore and hot, if you’re not already a member, this is a scene you can’t afford to miss!

TRIGGER WARNING: This scene is a consensual pre negotiated hardcore fantasy featuring misogynist language, abduction, rough sex and BDSM themes. Enjoy!

theotheropinion:

fightingweakness:

tittysprinklezzz:

i’m an avid fan of porn…but this is quite disturbing…for the mere fact that these dudes cannot feel anything.

This is so troubling there aren’t even words to describe…

Acting out a rape scene, kidnapped a random person off…

Video removed because I don’t want that disgusting video on my blog. This is fucking horrific. Who thought this would be a good idea? I hope ftmfuckers gets the fucking backlash of the century over this shitshow.

PS This makes me think of Kael T Block, who actually is a rapist and a “porn star”

I am a multiple rape and molestation survivor, and can even publicly attest to have had a forced sexual interaction with Kael T Block himself. 

I am also a sex-positive person who has performed in concentual rape-play scenes both on and off camera with co-workers, sex partners, and lovers. 

THERE IS A MAJOR, MAJOR DIFFERENCE BETWEEN CONCENTUAL RAPE PLAY AND REAL RAPE. 

And you, a random person on Tumblr, has come forth to try and claim that this video is ”like Kael T Block.”

WELL, IT’S NOT. 

There IS a trigger warning for this trailer. There is a statement of consent for this trailer. The scene, shot and directed by James Darling, was CREATED BY THE PERFORMERS THEMSELVES. Beretta, Dex, and Delvin as a group came up with this concept.

YES, THERE ARE REALLY PEOPLE OUT THERE WHO WANT TO LIVE OUT A KIDNAPPING AND RAPE FANTASY IN THE SAFETY OF FRIENDS, LOVERS, AND ARTISTIC COLLABORATORS. These performers were paid actors given a chance to come up with their own ideas for a porn scene, and this is what they WANTED. They designed the script. They gave consent. They had safe words, dental dams and condoms, lube, lighting, a set, after-care, open communication,and ethical porn-making practices.

They are not “sick.” It is NOT “horrific.” It’s not “disturbing” or “disgusting.”  IF YOU DON’T LIKE IT, THAT’S TOTALLY OKAY. But sex positivity means that you don’t “YUCK PEOPLE’S YUM,” and you CERTAINLY don’t call them disgusting and compare them to real life rapists, when they actually created a very safe space for this kind of play - which is actually a very common practice within the BDSM community, of which these 3 performers all participate in.

To compare this completely safe, sane, cathartic experience, A VALID, ethical, and feminist form of pornography, to an actual misogynist rapist is incredibly triggering and heartbreaking to someone like me, who has been on both sides of the story, including having been abused by the same person you are comparing one of my personal favorite porn scenes to.

To me, this scene, and consentual rape play in general, is something that heals, something that makes me feel my own emotions, something that helps me cope with my own history of abuse, and something that turns me on - knowing that Berratta and the two men in this scene were SAFELY exploring a very real, very scary fantasy.

Rape is certainly real and not to be joked about or made fun of - but consentual non-consent is not humor, or a joke to be taken lightly - it’s an intense form of sex that real people participate in and deserves to have a place at the table in indie, ethical, feminist, and queer, and any intersection, pornography. 

Sincerely, 

A survivor, and whole-hearted supporter of consentual non-consent.

Courtney Trouble

p.s. In the spirit of sex-positivity and education, here is some Safe-For-Work information from Wikipedia on the basics of rape play:

http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Consent_(BDSM)#Consensual_non-consent

http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Rape_fantasy 

and maybe this book: http://www.amazon.com/gp/product/157344779X/ref=as_li_ss_tl?ie=UTF8&camp=1789&creative=390957&creativeASIN=157344779X&linkCode=as2&tag=erosophia-20

reblogging for commentary-the-last. and also because it’s possible that i would find this really hot, and i may want to track it down to watch at some point.

(Source: ftmfucker.com, via mrsexsmith)

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SAMOIS&#8217; lesbian hanky code.

SAMOIS’ lesbian hanky code.

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"For me right now, a lot of my interest in D/s, especially with the intense fetishized misogyny kick and humiliation, is that it is so hot because it’s so taboo. It’s barely my everyday reality (which totally has to do with the fact that I’m an upper middle class white cis lady, by the way—I have so much buffer from misogyny that despite being a woman, I can actually fetishize it as taboo, unlike many trans women, and women of color, who face racialized and sexualized misogyny in a way that I don’t). The humiliation stuff is about exposure and objectification, which is humiliating, but it relies on concepts of virtue and modesty and purity and, conversely, what it means to be a slut, that are just so far from my own belief system as to be ludicrous, and so far outside my realm of existence. My parents are on my side about women and sexuality and slut-shaming. My work is on my side. My friends are on my side. Being designated a slut or a virgin by other people is just not something that happens to me, at least not to my face, that often, and when it does, it doesn’t generally come along with the risk of physical violence or the loss of income or job/education opportunities."

— an email i sent to my ex-roommate, who’s starting to explore d/s and polyamory, on kink and privilege and feminism. just thinkin’.

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damn it feels good to be a grown-up

#bottoming #negotiation #leather #femme #caning 

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fuckdudeskilldudes:

ahhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhh

when I showed these to cuntext like months ago her immediate reaction was “I wonder if any of this stuff is actually functional for bondage”

I am also wondering that bc I was never really into the whole leather bondage thing but my reservations are almost entirely aesthetic, so……………………..

yo, you know you can get cuffs and other leather bondage gear in “blonde” leather? i really wanted some for awhile. and the cuff nic gave me is lighter leather, too.

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unsubtle-knife:

combine this with the comic book heels i reblogged a few days ago and i am DEAD

unsubtle-knife:

combine this with the comic book heels i reblogged a few days ago and i am DEAD

(Source: soulsuckah)

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loquaciousrainbows:

One Shade of Grey

&#8230;AUUUGHHHH IS CONSENT WHAT THE &#8220;50 SHADES&#8221; IN 50 SHADES OF GREY IS GETTING AT BECAUSE I NEVER CONSIDERED THAT BUT IT TOTALLY MAKES SENSE AND NOW IT IS EVEN MORE HORRIFYING. AUUGHHHH.

loquaciousrainbows:

One Shade of Grey

…AUUUGHHHH IS CONSENT WHAT THE “50 SHADES” IN 50 SHADES OF GREY IS GETTING AT BECAUSE I NEVER CONSIDERED THAT BUT IT TOTALLY MAKES SENSE AND NOW IT IS EVEN MORE HORRIFYING. AUUGHHHH.

(Source: marcelinetheleafqueen, via tough-titty-deactivated20121030)