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it’s been at least a year and “fingernail flagging” still makes me want to punch everyone

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vanilla(-passing) femme

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"My femme is intentional.

I am always femme: whether I am wearing a short skirt, men’s pants, or nothing at all, you should be able to tell. Why? Because of how I walk. Because of the space my femininity takes up. Because of the way I have subsumed masculinity and remade it into my femininity.”

"My femme is intentional.

I am always femme: whether I am wearing a short skirt, men’s pants, or nothing at all, you should be able to tell. Why? Because of how I walk. Because of the space my femininity takes up. Because of the way I have subsumed masculinity and remade it into my femininity.”

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SAMOIS’ lesbian hanky code.

SAMOIS’ lesbian hanky code.

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pussy-strut:

well if you say so

i mean, sure.
but at the same time, i regularly flag with actual hankies, and almost no one notices.
so something tells me that going even tinier and even subtler is probably not gonna work so well?
ways i femme flag:
hankie around the wrist
hankie around the leg, showing over the top of a boot
hankie around the thigh, under a short skirt
hankie in the back pocket of my pants (you wouldn’t think it from all this talk of “femme flagging,” but lots of femmes actually do wear pants, guys!)
hankie as a headband with the knot to your side of choice 
and i have one of those hankie roses but it is way too big to stay in my hair and doesn’t look so good, so i’ve only ever flagged with it by making it into a garter under a short skirt

pussy-strut:

well if you say so

i mean, sure.

but at the same time, i regularly flag with actual hankies, and almost no one notices.

so something tells me that going even tinier and even subtler is probably not gonna work so well?

ways i femme flag:

  • hankie around the wrist
  • hankie around the leg, showing over the top of a boot
  • hankie around the thigh, under a short skirt
  • hankie in the back pocket of my pants (you wouldn’t think it from all this talk of “femme flagging,” but lots of femmes actually do wear pants, guys!)
  • hankie as a headband with the knot to your side of choice 
  • and i have one of those hankie roses but it is way too big to stay in my hair and doesn’t look so good, so i’ve only ever flagged with it by making it into a garter under a short skirt

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